SOCIAL HEALTH CLUB

Science-based skills for stronger connection

Relational fitness is something you can train. We share research, frameworks and practices you can use to build it—one skill at a time.

SOCIAL HEALTH CLUB

Science-based skills for stronger connection

Relational fitness is something you can train. We share research, frameworks and practices you can use to build it—one skill at a time.

SOCIAL HEALTH CLUB

Science-based skills for stronger connection

Relational fitness is something you can train. We share research, frameworks and practices you can use to build it—one skill at a time.

Stop Saying 'Just Listen More': The Listening Skills Nobody Taught You

It’s the most common relationship advice there is, and one of the least useful. Telling someone to “listen more” is like telling someone to “get more fit” — true, but it skips the only part that matters: how.

Apr 13, 2026

Social Health Is the Next Mental Health

A decade ago, saying you saw a therapist was something you kept quiet. Today it’s normal — a sign you take your mind seriously. Mental health went from stigma to standard practice, and we’re all better for it.

May 25, 2026

The Friendship Audit: How to Map Your 15 Closest Relationships

A few years ago, on vacation in Paris, a friend gave me a strange assignment: make a list of your closest people, and think honestly about how you actually spend your time with them.

Jun 25, 2026

Why You Can't Make New Friends as an Adult (And the 40-Hour Fix)

Most adults will never make a new best friend. Not because they can’t — because of simple math.

Apr 25, 2026

How to Repair a Relationship After Conflict

Most of us treat conflict as the enemy of close relationships. We assume the strongest bonds are the ones with the least friction — the partner you never argue with, the friend you never disagree with.

Feb 13, 2026

Connection Is a Skill, Not a Personality Type

We treat connection like a personality trait. Some people are “naturals” — warm, magnetic, effortless in a room. The rest of us assume we just weren’t built that way.

Mar 25, 2026

Trust Is a Four-Letter Word: How to Build It With Anyone

We talk about trust like it’s weather — something that either shows up or doesn’t, that you wait around for and hope arrives. “I just don’t trust them yet.” “We need to build some trust first.”

Jan 5, 2026

I Gave My Mom a Performance Review (And You Should Too)

At work, we have rituals for getting better at relationships. Regular 1:1s. Feedback cycles. Performance reviews where someone sits you down and tells you, with care, what’s working and what isn’t.

Dec 16, 2025

How to Fix Your Social Life

Five surprising prescriptions for improving your social connections.

Feb 27, 2025

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